I am going through a serious season of being tested... many areas of my life have been a struggle and when you are single and going through it alone, it can make things seem that much harder...I am blessed because I do have a good network of friends and family to lean on...but lets keep it real I rather be leaning on my man... in the end I am learning patience and learning I am worth so much more and I will be blessed with the right man at the right time.
So where do I begin since my last log on I have been drowning myself in a new business venture called Chela's Handmade Boutique http://www.etsy.com/shop/chelahandmade my handmade items mostly crochet items but I am planning on adding other items that I make such as journals, scrapbooks, and cards. I love to create that is my passion and I feel truly blessed to be able to share my creations with others... I have a scrapbook website that also keeps me busy www.urbanscrappers.ning.com.
As far as my single life its been quiet no unusual suspects just the same old story everyone just wants to know what you can do for them today and when is it going down.... late night booty calls have become normal behavior for men its as if no man exist until after midnight they are like vampires waiting to suck you dry or to be sucked either or ...lol What a shame I have so much more to offer than just that thing....
I woke up with this thought in my head...it is better to have loved and lost to never have loved before...I am blessed because I have loved and I have a love in my heart that no one can take away....
Okay so lets review I have been single for about 6 months or more I lost count...and this is what I have learned...
I attract babies yes I love the whole cougar thing but give me a break 21years old come on my daughter is 21... :-(
The single men my age are so damaged and out of season... I feel like I am shopping on the clearance rak!!!!
The other men my age are married and thought they heard cheating in their wedding vows.... do you promise to love honor and cheat till death do you part...whatever!!!
Then we have the lets just all get it on men ....whats the problem why cant your friend join us... yuk!!!
I am not hating this is my experience and I wish I had a lovely love story to tell ....and we lived happily ever after...so glad I am living happily single and that is just fine with me because I can do bad all by myself ..don't get me wrong a strong black man is out there for me... I'm just enjoying the ride to him!!
Be open to new experiences and expect to fail a few times as you began to take control of your dating life. Expect some rejections, but let the sting of rejection roll off your back. Keep pressing forward!! Never give up on seeking love you deserve....
If the guy you're dating doesn't seem to be completely into you, or you feel the need to start " figuring him out," please consider the glorious thought that he might just not be that into you FREE YOURSELF AND FIND ONE THAT IS.
We all know men get hurt just as much as women but at least we admit it and try to work through our issues but a hurt man is scorned for life... you have to rebuild him piece by piece and unfortunately many women have to many of their own issues to worry about rebuilding a man... but their are a few women who can relate and understand the pain and how hard it is to trust love again so lets work through our issues together and see where this may lead us....
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